I started "pampering" my husband before we were even married. I not only file his heels and massage them with lotion, I pull the white hairs out of his eyebrows (groom him) and clip his fingernails for him. He loves it and I get a lot of love for it. (cuddling)
I also learned that if I don't want to get wet when sitting on the stool, to lift up the seat when I'm done.
This has never hurt our relationship.
