Originally Posted by 1smle2dmpls

Thanks for your advice BreathofGod. We've met with two pastors from the church but it didn't help. It seemed like they would make sure you tithed and were on top of it rather than returning a phone call. I want to go to another church, but my husband is staying there not matter what, i believe its because his family goes there. I guess I'll keep trying at the same church, when I get back. I want to stay married, I'm just happy I'm not overwhelmed living over there. Even though I love him and miss him I'm happier here but he wants to stay over there. Even if I dont want to. I dont know what God has planned for us. I know his family is looking at me like I'm a bad wife for not being by my husband's side but I've tried talking to him and know its to the point where the t.v. comes before fixing the marriage. So that's why I'm here. Now he can watch all the t.v. he wants without me being there. It's only been a month since I left and nothing has really improved. I just feel that he's getting bad ideas and being more stubborn because of his family. I pray that one day we can be alone again like we use to. Sometimes having family around isn't the best thing at certain times of your marriage. Mine is in California, while his is in Texas.