Thank you guys. She does appreciate me and believes in abstinance. It's just the old friends and people from work who don't undserstand.
The problem is not so much that people don't understand Christianity. It's that they believe they actually do.
Thank you Fluffy for my new Facebook message where a couple of these particular people can see it:
Mark says: 1 Peter 4:4 - Those who do not know God are surprised you do not join them in the sinful things they do. They laugh at you and say bad things against you.