Ginger, as I read this, I am terribly sorry what you have to go through.
Me and my mother have had similar experiences...and I'd say more but I'm not.
The only thing is that you should continue praying. Every church has its own faults, whether it be someone doing such-and-such, or the latter. I don't think there's any church without some kind of little stirring in it.
I hope that you're feeling much better.
Please know we at CFS are here for you whenever you need it.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
