Whats wrong with being friends with those gals and leaving it up to God to lead you and the mate chosen to be with you together with you eventually? I've heard more excuses given for people to try and see if compatible with a potential mate thru dating and more.
Lame excuses to swing the choice who you want away from God over to you. And if do, it will fall thru. even with the mate God has chosen for someone it will still see trials and work to help you both become "one flesh" in all aspects, but it will come out successful if both stay inline with God's leading as the mate they are in the marriage.
God Bless!!
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